Well I finally went and saw an endocrinologist today. He was a very nice doctor at Hospital Clinica Biblica. He went over everything with me and spoke really good English. He was really surprised that my public doctor wanted me to have the biopsy done with how small the tumor is, but he stated that it was a very good thing that she had me do it. There are some cells in the biopsy that are very questionable at this point. Basically, it is a 50/50 chance that it could still be cancerous. He knows the doctor very well that did the lab work for the biopsy and was surprised to see him even give the recommendation to have it surgically biopsied. He said this is very unusual at this stage. He doesn’t want to jump right in and do surgery on me; especially with how many I have had done already. I went over my surgeries with him and I thought he was going to fall out of his chair as I went down the list.
Three eye surgeries, Tonsils and adenoids; plus a cyst that was found, Wisdom teeth, gall bladder, appendix, bilateral lipomas four times, sinus surgery three times, plus countless removals of cysts. I think I am trying to see what all I can live without. And that is not even the complete list of stuff done.
So, I have a list of blood work that needs to get done. I will be having that done through the public system as it doesn’t take too long to get the appointment and get the results back. Then next month my specialist wants me to have the ultrasound done again. He said I can e-mail him all the test results and if I have any questions I can e-mail him anytime. My next appointment with him is in June, if all the test results are fine. If things change I will probably be going to see him sooner.
He has ordered me to relax, no exceptions! He said if it is cancerous I still don’t need to worry because it is easily treatable. I know that it is, but it still makes me worry. The doctor spent a very long time with me today and made sure that I understood everything. Total cost of today’s appointment, with no insurance, was under $100 and this was at one of the best hospitals in the country. He didn’t order any unnecessary tests, or prescribe any unnecessary medication. He is taking it one step at a time to make sure that surgery is the last option. I like this.
Until mañana, Pura Vida!
Yesterday my husband and I had our wedding here in Costa Rica. It was amazing. We never had a wedding before, we went to Las Vegas and got married. We took turns driving from Cincinnati and drove straight through; it was 2,000 miles and took 30 hours. We drove there and back. I figure if we can spend a total of 60 hours in a vehicle together and not want to kill each other, then we were made for one another. I tried planning a wedding back then, but it wasn’t going very well. I had called up my father to ask him to walk me down the aisle and he said, “Why don’t you just go to the justice of the peace and get married?” Needless to say I was pretty heartbroken. So, we ended up in Las Vegas. That was 11 years ago.
Now, with the new law here in Costa Rica you have to produce a new, notarized, apostiled, and translated marriage certificate that is not more than 30 days old when you go to renew your carnet. My husband and I live in a pretty small town of around 8,000 people. We got our new residency cards last month, it took us a full 30 days for them to come in. Then we went to renew our carnets, we did not have the marriage certificate, but they didn’t even ask for it. I am not sure if it just because they know us or what. But it never came up and we weren’t going to bring it up. But we still had our wedding and got remarried.
It was a beautiful day yesterday, even though it was really hot and humid; at least it didn’t rain! We only had about 20 people there, which was perfect for us. We had traditional Costa Rican food that was all homemade by our friends. I did buy a beautiful three tier cake though, which was quit difficult to get it to the wedding. We held the wedding at one of our friends houses, they live on a big property not far from our house. (We actually used to rent one of the houses on the property.) My friend asked me a few days before the wedding about decorations. I told her that it wasn’t important to me, just having our friends there is what really mattered. I did buy some balloons though to have put out so people could find the place. When we got there they had the place looking so beautiful for us. They got a tent for outside, put fresh flowers up everywhere, got tables with really nice tablecloths, and had flowers on those too. I was so overwhelmed. I just wasn’t expecting all of that, I got teary eyed.
I got to finally toss the bouquet, I always wanted to. My husband and I had our dance, Phil Collins-Groovy kind of love. There wasn’t any rum left over. These people here have become my family. It was a beautiful day with beautiful people and I don’t think I could have been happier. I was so nervous beforehand. But it was very relaxing and really stress free. Everyone was smiling, laughing, and having a great time. I’m glad we had a wedding here with close friends. I couldn’t have asked for a better day. Until mañana, Pura vida!